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Motherhood means you see world through child's eyes

Parenting process a life-changing experience for Beijing mother

By Li Hongyang | China Daily | Updated: 2025-11-14 09:07
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Editor's note: Balancing motherhood and work in the modern world is a struggle many women will inevitably face. Here are the experiences of three women on how they managed to find self-worth and value facing such challenges.

Two full-time mothers organize a games session at their residential community in Hangzhou, Zhejiang province, in July. The community recruited several experienced mothers to its activity center, allowing children to have a happier and more meaningful summer vacation. LIN YUNLONG/FOR CHINA DAILY

I chose to prioritize motherhood, a decision that has shaped my life profoundly.

In 2019, when I discovered I was pregnant, I resigned from my job. The challenges of commuting on crowded public transportation during my pregnancy led me to focus entirely on my health and the well-being of my unborn child.

In 2023, I returned to the workforce in the telecommunications industry. The field is often seen as a traditional industry, and over the years, there haven't been many significant changes. I have adjusted well to the new job.

During the first three years of my daughter's life, I dedicated myself entirely to being a full-time mother. I felt that my presence was crucial during this formative period.

These years were not without challenges. The physical demands of motherhood, including sleepless nights and the constant attention my child required, took a toll on my health.

When I was taking care of my child on my own, I set fairly high standards for myself. In terms of my physical capacity, these demands were quite challenging. I ensured we had three to four outdoor activities daily. As she grew to about 2 years old, I insisted we explore beyond nearby parks, visiting places like the science museum or going on trips to broaden her experiences.

I also prepared separate meals for her and put a lot of effort into cooking for my husband and myself, as eating well contributes to my happiness. I ensured we had at least three dishes for dinner. Balancing child care, meal preparation and attending to my child's emotional needs was tough. I've never hit or scolded her. I believe in allowing her to express emotions, which often meant suppressing my own feelings. Every day, I woke up feeling weak, especially during the summer.

However, I remained committed to providing a nurturing environment, ensuring my child had ample opportunities to explore and learn, even if it meant pushing my own limits.

During the time when my child needed me the most in her first three years, my focus was entirely on her. I decided not to worry about money during this period because I knew I wouldn't go hungry. My family's spending level matches my husband's income. My main goal was to be a good mother, and that's how I defined my role at that time.

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